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My 16 year old daugther is going to the Canary Islands with friends in August. Her friends are 18 and 21 and will most lilely be going clubbing, drinking, having holiday flings etc. Im sooo scared! She is paying for the holiday herself from money she has saved from her part time job, and it was booked before she even told me about it, and her Dad (who she lives with) is happy for her to go. So its not as if I can say no, all I can do is try and prepare her to not do anything silly like end up with alcohol poisoning or an STD or pregnant. Am I over reacting???

She is quite sensible, in fact she dumped a boy at the end of last year because she found out he had already lost his virginity, and she didnt want that pressure on her, she knows she is not ready for that yet. I was so proud! And she doesnt drink or smoke or anything like that, but I just have this horrible feeling she may succumb to peer pressure of her older friends, not want to seem like a child around them etc etc. But its a wonderful opportunity to have a great holiday before she goes back to school.

I am so confused and panicked, help!!!! lol

Thanks Rae, yes I will be calling her every day to make sure she is ok, and I have been thinking about talking to the parents of the girls she is going with...do you think that is over the top? Would they be offended? I think I just want to make sure they arent the kind of girls that would lead her up the wrong path, but how the hell do you ask someone that about their daughters lol

Thats very good advice thank you both, I'll get their numbers of DD and call this afternoon, I'll let you know how it goes!