Hi Roxy,
I am 38 in March & my partner is 42 in 4 days and we have twin 1 year old girls. I have no support network around me. I am from up North and live in Essex, most of my family and friends are up there my mum lives in Spain. My in laws live about 40mins away and I probably see them once a week when I go to them. My partner leaves for work at 8am and doesn't get back until 8pm, so you can well imagine how busy its been. But it has been the most hardest most rewarding job I have ever had. They are so much fun and entertain one another too. If you work as part of team you cant go wrong hun. I am tired and have recently gone back to work part time, but me and DP take turns at weekend to have lie ins I lie in Sat him Sun. So at least one day a week we have catch up sleep time.
I had two embryos put back and both worked. But I have plenty of friends 38 upwards having a healthy pregnancies and babies. If and when we try again I would still have 2 put back. Hope this helps feel free to PM me anytime with any questions hun.
xx
Melanie
1st IUI cylce 10 March 06 BFN
2nd IUI cycle 19th June 06 BFN
3rd IUI cycle 6th Sep 06 BFN
4th IVF 31st March at St Barts
Daisy born @ 35wks 20/12/07 12.16am 4lb 13.5 oz
Nuala born @ 35wks 20/12/07 12.18am 5lb 10oz