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I am so disapointed by my boss i could honestly hand my notice in. To cut a long story as short as possible i have just completed a 3 month full time secondment in a job that i never wanted to do but agreed to as he told me he would pay me a minimum of £2000 as a bonus at the end.

So fast forward the most hellish 3 months ever and i go to him to ask what im getting for my bonus. He says £946 before tax!!! Meaning about £600 in my hand if im lucky, taking the extra childcare costs off you are lucky if i made £350 out of it. I told him that was not what we agreed when he offered me the job and he said his head has been minced and he cant remember that discussion and there is nothing he can do as the bonus is set of half the salary between my own job and the one i was doing for the 3 months. I told him there is know way i would have done the job for that money as it was very hard going and inflexible to me but as i knew he was stuck and i was the only person trained to do it and with the bonus i decided to do it. Anyway he is saying his hands are tied and as i trusted him and we had a verbal agreement i dont see what i can do.

He offered me a new secondment on my part time hours once again something he very much needs me to do and once again it was a verbal offer of a bonus at the end as my childcare costs will increase and i said i wanted them covered. I have now emailed him as wont see him and said due to his mistake with my original bonus i am not willing to do the new job under a verbal offer of a "bonus" at the end and would want the cash monthly in my wage and for something in writing now confirming it all.

I feel rotten as his wife has cancer and we all try and walk on egg shells so as not to stress him but in talking to colleagues i have found he has done this to a few people and its the same story every time - he cant remember the original coversation!

I am so annoyed as we booked ivf on the strength of having this money and i feel so let down and unappreciated. I know i done a good job he even said it himself but i am not getting what was offered to me to complete the job. Where do i go from here and do you think i have done the right thing re the new job?

Thanks for all the advice. I am putting it down to a lesson learned. He is a nice guy but upgainst it himself re our budget but now i have no faith in him as my manager. It is wrong to offer someone a certain amount fo money, know they have trust in you and then do what he did. I feel for him for his home situation but if he cant cope he should be handing some of his worklaod over. I know he opened my email yesterday but as yet i have had no reply or phonecall. Will keep you up to date when i hear from him. Thanks again for the advice x

Oh where is the meet up??

Well regarding the secondment i have done he just bascially refused to acknowledge he ever said i would get more than i got. Lesson learned on my part. The new one i have the agreement in writing and have secured the bonus payments quarterly instead of at the end of the placement. Talking to a colleague i have found out he has done the same kidn of cock up with her. Its just infuriating he can treat people like that. Anyway as i said lesson learned and it wont happen again thats for sure. Not with me anyway. I have not seen him since the day this kicked off so am dreading seeing him in monday as i still feel so resentful but will see how it goes. Its annoying as i felt we had a good relationship but in my mind he is not someone i want to work for now!!

Anyway on the plus side i now have a nice mon - wed 8-4 job no weekends and lots more money than i was on - cant be bad!!

Thanks for asking and let me know about meet up

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